Considering how terrifying going to a reunion can be I thought about it before hand and came up with several ideas before I went on how to have fun. Others in the list came to mind as I was there. So here goes:
2. Ask others about themselves and their lives first. Everyone loves to talk about themselves. Listen carefully, especially if they have had or are having a challenge in their life. Not only will you be thought of in a positive way, but you may be helping someone cope with difficulties they are facing. Remember, it’s not all about you.
3. Don’t try to impress. No matter where you are in the timeline, 10, 20, 30… uh hum… 40 years out of high school, a reunion is not a place for social climbing. No place is really, but it will really stick out if you are trying to show off your job, status, wealth, etc. A reunion is about a time when we were all young and dumb teenagers. These people all know what you were like then. Where you are or want to be isn’t what they care about. You’ll be scattered again in a day or so and again be a memory. Remember, you won’t see most of these people for at least five years. They can’t or won’t help you with your career or social status. Remember it's about the memories.
5. Be generous. If there is an opportunity to donate to a scholarship fund do so. It doesn’t need to be much. Remember, it is better to give than to receive.
6. Don’t stay in your cliques, chat with everyone. The cliques were just that; were. Your life has moved past high school. Be interested in the kid you ignored. Bill Gates and Steve Jobs were probably the ones no one thought much about because they were nerds. You may find the jock or cheerleader you hung around with is not nearly as interesting as the kid with glasses who always knew the answer. Remember, you aren’t in high school anymore.
8. Tell everyone they look just like they did years ago. In a way they do. They may have wrinkles, short hair instead of long or no hair, but their eyes are the same, their smile, those things that makes them who they are. Everyone likes to be recognized. Many will remember a face even if they can't recall the name. Remember, you look similar too.